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Originally Posted by Justme_55
When being intimate with my spouse or pleasing myself I can only achieve an orgasm if I fantasize about my ex. It's getting increasingly harder to not feel emotional afterwards about the fact I can't have sex with him anymore. It was amazing and he was the only man that could sexually satisfy me. Being with him is not a possibility so am I the only person with this issue? I really miss sex with him...
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I kind of relate. I'm not into sex and prefer to avoid it if I can, but if there was one person it was best with, it was my previous ex. Sometimes when I do things by myself, I still see her face and eyes in my mind, and the way she would look at me when she wanted me. There were times I really missed having sex with her. Not because of the sex itself, but because of the way I could actually achieve psychological/intellectual arousal with her. It was the way she could make me yield to her everything that I was. For me, that was the greatest turn-on ever.
If all of that makes sense. Might be something totally different that you're talking about.