I was not in love the first time I had sex. In fact I was only a week into being in a relationship with the man, and we had been talking for about a month. I don't regret it at all. I felt safe, cared for and respected. The first time in my life I had felt those things. It just felt right. We have now been together a year and will be getting engaged sometime next summer after I complete my degree.

I wasn't in love when I had sex with my now bf, but even if we hadn't of worked out so well and ended up falling in love I still wouldn't change my decision.

I don't believe you have to be in love to have sex, some people do, some people don't. It's all a matter of what is best for the individual or the pairing of people involved.

It isn't immoral or wrong to have causual sex, as long as you and the person you are involved with are being safe and using protection.

Sex is a part of human nature, it isn't as important to other people and to some it is, it's all a matter of personal choice. To me sex is very important, especially in a relationship, for me it is a way to express attraction, want, and affection.