Hi Noelle,

How close are you to your parents? And do they know about your boyfriend? I don't know the nature of your relationship with this boy, but there are potentially irreversible scenarios which could take place. Noelle, I'm going to be frank and tell you that you're really too young to be in a relationship with a boy at 13. At your age, you should be focusing on school and surrounding yourself with friends who build you up.

My advice to you is to end it immediately and enjoy your middle school years without worrying about whether he's playing games with you or not and being lonely. I hope you're able to talk to your parents about your 5-month old "relationship," but if not, please go talk to a school counselor to help you through this. Take care, Noelle...I want the best for you.