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Mar 23, 2012, 04:10 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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It almost sounds like you're afraid to get 'too close' to someone for fear that they'll find out something about you --- even tho there might not be anything "bad" to find out!  Maybe you're afraid that if they get to know the REAL you, they won't like you. I wouldn't be afraid --- just be yourself!  If you attracted them in the first place, there must have been something about you that they like. You can't hide everything. Parts of the real you come thru whether you're trying to hide them or not.
Try not to be too clingy -- you've got to give each other space or you will drive the other one away. No one is attached at the hip. We all need to have our own time & space to do our own "thing" even in a marriage! It might be a good idea for you to get into counseling. A good therapist could help you with these issues.
Best of luck & God bless. Hugs, Lee
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