Dear T,

I am angry.. I am not sure if it is irrational or not. The only issue I have had with you is phone calls. I call, like you tell me to.. you don't return those calls. In the past you have blamed it on, being outside of the office, having back to back patients, being overall busy. Today, I called at 9am.. I know that if you don't call back until the next two or so hours, you probably won't call back. So, after waiting all day and I decided to call the receptionist back at 3:45 and say, I know you are probably really busy, but I called and left a message for you to call me and hadn't.. Please let Dr. K know that I need to talk to him today.. She took down the message.. I did not hear from you. Why? I really, really want to say well I am just not going to call you anymore. However, I can't do that. You are my support person right now, and right now.. I am not feeling very supported.

When we first clarified when is okay to call, you said during normal day time hours, I can call if I feel like I need to talk to you.. And even a couple of times after rough sessions you have reassured me that I could call if I needed to.. The times that you have called me back, you haven't sounded annoyed, you were really helpful. You said that I could even call after hours (which I have NOT done) but to save that for the truly urgent cases. So, I feel like I am following your directions. And I am not getting any response from you. Anytime I have ever called, I have had to call more than once to get an answer from you. This sucks. I don't know what to expect from you. Are you trying to teach me a lesson? Have you changed your boundaries? Have I called too many times? Please don't leave me hanging.