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Old Mar 23, 2012, 08:23 PM
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Originally Posted by stumpy View Post
call child welfare anonymously on them.

if the child needs help & it is obvious she does then as an adult it you owe it to her to get her some. if her parents won't then someone needs to reach out & help the child.

look..the situation living there is going to come to a head & explode anyway. it doesn't sound as though it is a fairly tolerable situation to begin with..

what is more important to you? keeping everyone happy & making nice & ranting here..or seeing that a troubled child gets the help she needs?

your t called it right. it is neglect. it is a child. they matter more than your housing. or if the mother will hate you.

period. priorities.
I know your right and i feel guilty not reporting this but being that i'm living here in their house just makes it hard for me to do it. They will know its me who else knows and would complain? I've been hoping waiting and praying that the school would step up and demand they get her help. she has to be showing signs at school when she goes. Plus i dont know how the mother would react she is already acting unstable and paranoid and she has daily rages herself. I wanted to approach the father but he'd tell her or just smile and nod and tell me that i heard wrong nothing is wrong with her. I was going to leave literature but my bf balked at that idea because the'd know it was me. Plus it would be my word against theirs and if they went their for a visit they would see nothing wrong and she looks and acts fine for the most part. Thats the thing, i'm the common denominator that seems to bring out her obsessive strange behavior. If i moved i would definetley do something but it will take me months before can even begin to look. At any rate i am really miserable because it is a creepy situation. today i had the fan on and she went wild up there for an hour and even when she calmed down she kept dropping stuff every now and then. Shes up over me now. And her mother has become attached to her now so she follows the daughter and now i have them both over me all the time i can hear them both talking now. when i go back in the bedroom they will move to the girls room over mine. The mother is monitoring the situation i guess and worried i may talk about her i dont know whats wrong with her but instead of just stopping her from following me she just tags along. i'm going to tell my bf that i've had enough and we have to speed up moving and until then we need to talk to them about her behavior. they will deny it though and she'll just get worse. oh well thanks for allowing me to vent everyone i wont contonue to complain. i am interested if anyone has any ideas on what her problem is and why someone would act this way though. i've been spending alot of time and energy looking up stuff and she has symptoms of adhd, odd, aspergers and maybe bipolar. i'm angry about this because i don't need it as i am sickly and they have no consideration they act like she is the only thing that matters and even expects me to not do normal things because she doesn't like it. They are insane themselves. I also do not mean to offend anyone who may have any of these illnesses or traits i am not judging or saying anything demeaning about this girl i feel for her i'm just disgusted with havung to be in the middle of it and having to be harrassed on a daily basis.