canders, for the first several meetings..if you decided to go with this, always meet him. don't let him come to where you live. and have the "dates" "meetings" "get togethers" in very public places. no being alone with him at first. your instincts will probably tell you, soon, what's up.....you're either into him or you're bored witless.

i thought about trying to slit my throat with my truck keys one night....on one of those "first dates".....we were having dinner and he started talking, about himself, at 7 and was still going strong at 11...the elderly couple at the next table were fascinated, mesmerized and appalled...all at the same time!! i found out his history from 1968!! this was in 2001. whewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. cheated boredom on that one....drove off and never looked back or SLOWED down. no wave, nada.......