i tried to google this but couldn't find any information. The only thing now is that i realized that i don't know what is the actual problem. One i do have a trust/relationship problem, but how do i know if i have a real sexual problem as well or not? All of my sexual experience has been unpleasant and witbout having orgasm. Now im just getting scared that I'm just disfunctional and that is why i am suppresing any chance/desire for relationship, because i dont want to pretend. I really don't know. How can i help myself if. i don't even know what's the fraking problem.