Hey SQLVR,

I think it's perfectly normal to be a loner and to not like wild parties. As long as you are happy with your life. I'm just like you except I have graduated college last fall, and while I'm okay being around people and talking to them when I need to, I don't like parties either. During parties, there is drinking involved, and I do not drink because I have no tolerance for alcohol. Also there is dancing involved, but I do not like to dance. There is nothing about parties that attracts me and I don't think there ever will be.

However, there may be a catch. You mentioned that you like people "sometimes." I'm just curious, what is it that causes you to not like people the rest of the time? You also mentioned that you are happy with your life "for the most part." Are you not happy sometimes because you think you are supposed to want to be around people more, or for some other reason? If so, what makes you unhappy about your life?