First, go to the student health center and let them know what is going on. Many times they can refer you to mental health services that are available on campus. Second, have you declared your major? If you have, make an appointment to talk to your dean. Tell him or her what is going on and see if you can get put on academic probation. That will give you the opportunity to bring your grades up or retake the classes you are failing or making low grades in. Finally--and this is the most important--talk to your Mom. If she helped you before she'll help you now. You're not a disappointment. You're a person who is in crisis and needs help. KUP on how you're doing. You'll find everyone here is unbelivably understanding and caring.