that's so mean. I'm glad you told us here about it. It is good to have this message board. People behave so strangely and even they sometimes aren't fully aware of the shadow that they live in. They forget what matters- others! Take a deep breath and one day ask him to discuss how he feels about other people and if he thinks they should have a safe space crossing the street. (Maybe it would be unwise to have this discussion with him-don't if you can't) You don't have to change him but you can discuss how he feels and not add morals to his sharing. Later if you do it this way he could realize that you were communicating to him about driving fair in the human race plane of humaness.