Thanks for the advice, I appreciate it. But I do tell him how I feel, regularly, and those are the only arguments we have. I did tell him that I'm not going to accept the double standard and if he's doing it I will to. He always manages to find ways to ignore this statement. The trouble is, I do not want to talk to other guys, I just want us both to come to a mutual agreement that its inappropriate, but he doesn't seem to budge. So it seems like its up to me to learn how to trust him.