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Originally Posted by shezbut
I'm not sure what the cause is though. I've certainly battled this for all of my life, and I hate it! Part of it may be genetic, but part is definitely environmental. For whatever reason, I never developed a "safe bond" with my parents.
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I hate it too. What do you mean by "safe bond"? As for how to battle it..I really believe in looking back. After my post, I emailed my older sis and asked her about my grandmother. Sis knew her better. What she told me really helped me understand what kind of upbringing my mother might have had. That explained a lot. She couldn't give me what she never got herself. It wasn't my fault..I hope this helps someone..