Like other experiences we've talked about, Crew, for me there was nothing to do here but let it go. Forgive, let go, move on. I had to let go of the person and the relationship too. There was no mending. I could forgive, because I did understand the "why" to a certain extent--but the trust was shattered, & forgiving didn't change that.

So that was my way. I think you want a healing & continuance of the relationship, really, am I right? I couldn't go there. She hadn't betrayed me before, but she'd hurt me ... And I wasn't willing to give her another chance. Maybe I was cheating myself--IDK.

Roadie