Reading your last post reminded me alot of my situation in alot of ways.
I basically forced my husband into counseling by telling him that I felt the only way our marriage would work is if we went to counseling, if not I didn't see a future and needed to move on. It worked, he wasnt' happy about it but he knew it was that or lose me. I don't know if that kind of ultimatum would work for you.
I am sorry I dont have more time to write now. I'll write more later!
Heidu
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