Swinging is not a lifestyle meant for everyone. Regardless of what other people think of it or how it is religiously looked at, I believe each person is either a swinger or not. Some people do have the capacity to be able to separate themselves enough not to fall for the person they are swinging with.

If you are having difficulties with it, discuss this with your hubby. If you aren't true to your feelings then it will start to really affect you in many ways, not just one.

Personally I see nothing wrong with swinging. I know many people who are swingers, can handle the lifestyle, and who are comfortable with it. Although I have no problems with it, I couldn't personally do it myself. I get too attached just after having sex with someone. I always want a commitment, which means not having sex or feelings for anyone else. So no, not the lifestyle for me.