Yeah, I definitely consider that abuse. I think a guy, even an drunk guy knows when a girl is to vulnerable and drunk. If that's the case a normal (good) guy would take you hope to sleep it off and would never consider taking advantage of you.

Now for the boy who not only abused you sexually, but emotionally from fear, I'm not sure what to say because I don't know how old is he. I guess there's the ages that can determine whether a person knew what they were doing.

It's definitely abuse and if this really eating you up get it out because it really takes weight off of you. It's not right what they did.