I feel for you likelife. In fact, I could have written your post myself. When we begin therapy , I dont think we even think about the relationship that develops with the actual therapist. After 6 years, I feel much the same as you. I hate the fact that I feel so dependent on her, that she feels like the mother i never had, and that i dont seem to be able to find that comfort anywhere else. I think she does truly care for me in the session, but unfortunately I think that they way i feel about her is vastly different to how she feels about me the rest of the time. As i said, she is warm and loving in the session, yet almost cold and informal in emails or on the phone (she does allow this). I have thought so often about making the break, but the thought of not having her in my life is very distressing. I'm sorry i dont have any solutions for you, other than to tell you you are not alone in this. Honestly, if had known what strong feelings would develop in a relationship that is so one sided, i think i would have thought twice about starting therapy. In many ways, i now feel i need help with the feelings i have for her and the eventual termination. Please pm me if you want to talk further. You are not alone.....