This may be a more appropriate forum for this topic. I am a survivor of sexual abuse, I am learning to set boundaries in my adult life. My husband had an affair and has a history of being emotionally and physically abusive but we are repairing the marriage and there is no more emotional or physical abuse, however the problem is now in our sex life.

Ok, firstly I want to say that my husband and I have always had a very active and healthy sex life. I'm having a hard time being intimate with him. I love the man I married but lets admit it, I have a lot of resentment. Now he will stop by and just want to have sex. I think he feels it's the best way for us to connect. I will tell him no and I'm not in the mood (not that I don't give it up a lot) and he just ignores me and laughs it off and he will pull me literally with me fighting the whole time into the bedroom. It makes me mad. It makes me feel gross. I said no because I didn't want to. I'll always end up getting mad and just telling him fine just to hurry and I spitefully just lay there. It makes me hate him. The other day he tried to get me in there and I pushed back and was like NO I'm serious. He tried pushin me in the bedroom but finally he said he was just joking and he was tired too. Is this normal? Am I just being uptight?