That's also my tendency....and in the beginning of the session, T told me not to do it in email....

I know he's trying to help me.....to be more direct, to work through my resistance, etc....but I sometimes wish he could help guide me instead of just sitting there waiting for me to take every step on my own.

It's like learning to ride a bike....instead of holding onto the handle bars while I hop on, gain my balance and start to pedal, he's just sitting there watching me struggle to get onto the bike and repeatedly fall.....