This is NOT normal at all. I'm really sorry about what's happening to you, as I've had it happen to me too. It can really mess with you, and I am going to seriously urge you to just leave him. I know you love the man you married, but I'm not sure he's there anymore. Be honest with yourself; if he was at the alter with you right now, would you say yes? I don't think you would, and I don't think this man is the man you married. I think he is dangerous and abusive to you, and hurting you. Which is wrong.

No means No, no matter who you say it to. If he doesn't respect that, you need to leave. That is a line that SHOULD NEVER be crossed. EVER. Because that is rape, even if you're married.

Please stay safe and do what is best for your own safety.

(((Girlio)))