I wear a uniform to work and there's no way I'm going to see my t dressed in camouflage. (Although, that's something for stopdog to consider- maybe she won't be able to see you.) I usually get home, go for a run and throw on something comfortable for t. I did go once after a big (civilian-type) meeting and was wearing earrings, nice clothes, and makeup. She said, "oh, you're really pretty", as if it were some big surprise. Clothes do maketh the man (or woman).