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Old Mar 30, 2012, 09:08 AM
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if i think i matter to people. it always sends me to such a bad place so fast.
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am i just a selfish, arrogant person. who is all wrapped in themself. and cant think of others.
These 2 thoughts above are opposites but you seem to feel that they are the same?

One is that you don't feel that you are important and the 2nd one is that you feel that you are over important.

Did any of your abusers tell you that you were selfish if you ever thought about yourself or your needs?
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........

I'm an ISFJ
Thanks for this!
geez, Open Eyes, suzzie