Assuming there was no physical, sexual abuse, just the memories of your naked father and that making you uncomfortable; when we are young, we do not have the "words" and experiences to be able to put what is happening to us into coherent thought like we do as adults. It is harder to work with non-verbal situations, both understanding them and resolving negative feelings since the person we were at that time has so few resources to help us.

It can be very frustrating working with such problems and, for me, it took many years working back-and-forth across the span of my then-life (2-7 year old) and "now" to knit them together so a new, improved self was "in charge" of the understanding and whole of Myself.