zoo, she just continues to use the poorest judgement, to show her lack of skills and ethics.
She may mean well, but she did not think about this and what impact it would have on you, on many levels. I think the email was about her. It infuriates me.

That said, I'm very happy you are here, and so sorry for that really hard time you were going through then.

It's understandable that you need to avoid some things now during this part of your healing.