I like to feel strong when I go to T, so I wear clothes that I think make me look good and like I've got myself together. Since I'm such a mess inside, I like to balance that with looking good on the outside. T is very strong, personality-wise, so I like to feel like I'm a match for him. (Here I am, T - bring it!!) Also, it takes a lot of strength to let myself be vulnerable when that's what I need to do to make progress. So yeah, I plan out what I'm going to wear days in advance.