I feel this is just another form of abuse. We hear a lot about the physical and emotional abuse in a domestic violent marriage, but little talk of the sexual abuse. I didn't even know there was such a term as marital rape until my therapist told me. I thought I was the one with something wrong with me that I didn't enjoy it. How can you enjoy being forced? If I wasn't married it would have been called rape. I just didn't know.

Please take care of you and no is no. I understand about just hit me and leave a mark instead. Then someone will know I hurt. With the sexual abuse no one knows until you tell. Safe hugs.