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No means no and his behavior is abusive.. - his just kidding sounds like he was testing you to see what you would do/say. Abuse is about control. Having said that it sounds like you may have a lot of anger not just with the bedroom but the fact that he cheated on you before.... did you ever process that anger from the past?
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