This happened to me in my second marriage. I was NEVER allowed to say no. Even with ribs separated from cartilage and kidney infections. I was r*ped and stalked after our separation. Now looking back it wasnt the only abuse. There was A LOT of emotional
abuse and threatening and fear and control and sneaky insidious manipulation. He played me like a violin. Leaving him was one the
best/ hardest things i've ever done.