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Old Apr 01, 2012, 10:44 AM
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Kacey, I know how painful this is for you, as I have been in a similar situation and it hurts really bad. However, your T is just doing what he thinks is best for you and although you are hurt and you don't like it, it is probably a good idea to give it a try. My therapist did something similar and it turned out to be the best thing she could have done for me. I was so upset i couldnt function for days but now i see how much she cared about me. It's not that you shouldnt be attached to your therapist. the attachment is crucial to healing, but two times a week can actually cause so many more problems and your T probably realizes this now. My attachment to my t is healthy and strong and i only see her every other week. I feel her with me all the time! I feel more connected than when i was seeing her twice a week and struggling to stay connected. Sometimes we don't like what our therapist do but it does not mean they don't care. Just like any good parent, they have to set limits that we dont always like or agree with. Hang in there!
Thanks for this!
Kacey2