My husband has not yet been diagnosed.. I am currently working with his PCP on trying to get him to come in...I know somewhere in there is the guy I love...how can he be so hateful...

His mom is deceased but was diagnosed with BP his brother (living) was diagnosed ADHD and is currently on meds for that and depression...

He currently sleeps on the couch will only sleep in the bed after I have left, is more interested in working out and planning his trip out of state..He initially told me it was at the advice of a psychologist that he take this trip to find out if it is where he wants to be living...well he never saw this psychologist....must be someone he thinks is trying to help...

He is going to visit this place because:
It looked cool while he was driving through
He thinks he is going to make more money
His problems will disappear

Meanwhile he is shopping on ebay, amazon, walmart for anything to help his workout (clothes) vhs tapes and movies... (no porn that I know of, if he is hyper sexual I am not seeing it) he bought a whole box of sponges to do the dishes because I am sure he got a good deal....this traveling and spending we cannot afford, but he is doing it anyway....