Improving, Elli-Mae, Spirit Runner, Pachy, and Tay you all wrote some really insightful things that I just love. I will respond, but right now my mind is just too tired to type logically anymore. Thanks for all you thoughtful, caring responses. I will reply tomorrow.

Wepow, MUE, Granite, Can't Explain........ (everyone). I truly love your responses as well and appreciate you all so much. Can't Explain I really liked what you said about when a man talks about doing a disservice it is actually something he is ashamed of. I will have to sit with that for a while.