I've had the time to realize how wrong I was. I want to do everything I can to make it right and get my life back. The problem is my wife. She understandably refuses to trust me and won't let me back into our house. I'm doing everything I can think of to rebuild trust, but nothing is enough. I know it will take time, but time is something I don't have much of with the divorce already moving through the courts. I've given her total access to my facebook and email accounts, and offered her access to my cell phone records and even a key to my apartment so she can verify that I'm not contacting anyone else. I'm not asking her to trust me or forgive me yet. I'm not even asking for the spousal and child support orders that are crippling me financially to be lifted. All I'm asking is that she commit to rebuilding our marriage as I have. The divorce can always be reinstated if I show that I can't be trusted. I just need time.

Can anyone offer help or advice?