Seems like pretty heavy thinking. I don't know if there's a definite answer for "Why would I want to replace that special relationship with something ordinary?".

It kinda seems like looking for a label for the relationship. What's ordinary, what's not. I think the relationship is just, is. No more, no less, kinda thing?

However, I do agree if you have a pretty good relationship with your T, it is quite an extraordinary one, I think because of all the judgement and stigma of therapy.

But what do I know?