Right now I wouldn't be comfortable with it, but it doesn't seem to bother some people at all. You really just have to know what your needs are. The fact that my T and I both have experience with marriage, being the parents of several children who are well beyond infancy, have aging parents, etc. are huge factors at this time of life, and knowing he has actually lived these issues rather than just reading about for some class he took is important to me. But again, that's not necessarily a deciding factor for everyone. So individual.