This is the link - I hope it works. Otherwise you can search Frank Pittman and Buyers guide to therapy or adversarial and it comes up.
Try this:
www.solutioninmind.org - go to links page and click on buyer's guide to therapy.

Like I said, it sounds like he is a total jerk, and I can only imagine I would not have stayed there 5 minutes with him, but just as another idea from the alliance thing and at least he admits it.
I seriously think I may simply have to have adversarial to be able to accept alliance. I find that somewhat comforting (like I am not a complete failure - just going through my way of getting to alliance).