Presumably I would be at a nightclub with my husband so flirting with the bouncer or bartender or other male staff or acquaintances would not bother me or my husband as it would be seen as "fun" and not taken seriously by myself or my husband. I have never given my husband any reason to worry about my love nor has he given me any reason to worry about his; we're very much a couple, a partnership, a pair, a team. We're not in each other's pockets by any means but it doesn't occur to me to worry about him because I don't worry about myself (and believe him to be like me in that respect).

It is funny though, I dreamed last night about an old boyfriend I haven't thought about for many years (my husband and I have been married 22 years) and was on the phone with him and trying to get off but he wouldn't get the hint and I didn't want to be "rude". I think I was actually giving a party at the time, other people were there and everything but I kept talking to him when I really wanted to get off