mrmanatee,

This is what takes place in the beginning the "yeah but" and then the "HOW". This really takes time to work through and sometimes what it is saying is, I am lost, never learned, never allowed to feel and in some ways have to now slowly begin to learn all of that. And if you listen to geez, she worked on that for a long time and finally is becoming a feeling self aware person. So she is proof that with time you CAN learn to do the same.

You have to give this time and don't even put any kind of time limit on it either.

I have been looking for the name of a book that is about re-parenting therapy. I can't seem to find it but will try to remember to ask my therapist tomarrow because I gave the name to him. One of the members here told me about it and it really helped her alot as many of the other therapies she tried didn't help that much. Dam I wish I could find it, I will keep looking.

((((Hugs)))
Open Eyes