My husband has a good chance of being offered a transfer with his company to the silicon valley. After researching, I have found that even with a cost of living raise, there is no way we can have the same housing that we have here in North Carolina. A house for our family would cost over a million dollars, and that is just for a small 4 bedroom house. I dread having to decide what to do if the transfer comes through. I would consider staying in NC and having just him relocate. Even with travel, the costs would be cheaper.
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