i dont really want to see my T's grief and stress. it will cause me to put my issues aside and not want to bother her with them. im sure thats not how a healthy relationship works but right now i just need her to be that strong, calm, steady guidance. basically i want and need her to provide what my mom never could. mentally and emotionally she couldnt. is this wrong to want that from T? i dont want her to be my mommy per say....i just want that guidance. that rock i can lean on...especially right now.....

i do agree though that T's should not bury their pain by hiding behind their work. they need to work it out with their own T's or friend/family......just not with me