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Apr 03, 2012, 11:41 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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I'm really sorry this happened. But can you turn this around and place yourself in HER shoes? How would YOU feel if the same thing had happened to you? Would YOU be able to forgive her and forget? Would YOU be able to trust her and let her back into your life? Would you be able to go on with a marriage that, in your words, had a lot of bitterness and resentment? And then the final straw comes with betrayal. How would YOU handle all of that? 
Yes, you have gone above and beyond as far as giving her access to all your belongings, i.e phone, apartment, e-mail, etc. But she will always be wondering when the next shoe will drop. When someone cheats on you once, you might forgive them. But when they cheat TWICE -- no especially when it's with the SAME WOMAN! That's a huge slap in the face to any woman.
I'm afraid you've done it my friend.  Perhaps you can part with some civility -- but don't expect her to greet you with open arms at the door. She'd be a fool to put herself thru that again. Try to move on with your life and learn from your mistakes.  This is a hard lesson to learn -- but I hope you did. God bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee
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