MKAC - If its time, its time.....just march right in there and say it.....and then its out there. Sometimes I have to have in my mind what i am going to say and then , I walk in sit down and say it...... once its out there its out there....maybe thats all you can say, talk more about it later.....start by just saying it! I know you can do it. There are many horrible things that have happened in the lives of so many good people. I experienced CSA from multiple offenders for many years, but I was a child, i was helpless and little and no one stood up for me - and adult me is not going to help victimize little me anymore, so im telling....hope this helps.