It's hard to say what you should do. If it were me I would move and let him contact you. Your not the one who wanted this and you want your realtionship to work. If you have told him that and that you love him then the rest is up to him. If he realizes what he lost and wants you back then he has some thing to make up to you and it should be his move.
Thats just my personal opinion. You have to do what you feeli is best for you. I am really sorry this is happening to you. You must hurt very much.
Heidu