we are simular , altho i am a 20 year old male , i have the same problems , when i meet a girl i feel as if i need to be talking to her all the time (clingy) i also feel as if there is no other girl like her .and i have had a couple women and each one gives me the impression that trhey are the one for me , and when they see that i kinda want tehm and them only , they think im getting to attached and wanna let me go , i wanna know how to slow myself down aswell .