((((KACEY))),
I posted above but hadn't read about your session. I really hope you try to find another T outside of this gaggle of Ts.

Therapists often consult with other therapists to deal with their own issues if they think they aren't helping a patient or are experiencing countertransference, etc. But he brought the one he consulted into the therapy room (so to speak) by telling you that he/she thought you were becoming too dependent. You had every right to question that person and your therapist, especially when someone you've never seen is making such a huge decision for you. This doesn't feel right to me at all, it's all too controlling. TC