One of the obstacles I have come across in trying to define the difference between my processes and those of "normal" folks is that many times they have experienced/felt similar stuff and "they ain't crazy". Which leads to the "Get over it' comments that DO drive me crazy..... I've been studying on this for years, trying to get to bottom lines that simplify and illustrate the variables in the concepts.....

This is broad picture I painted that went over very well with my Mom and Sis on our recent miracle meeting:

Everything is a spectrum. An onion. To describe the pieces of the puzzle to be spectumified, I have boiled it down to the "4 D's and an F".

DEPTH-DEGREE-DIRECTION-DURATION-FREQUENCY

LIFE EVENTS HAPPEN: HOW far in did it go??? HOW hot or cold was it??? DID it aim for the heart, self esteem, or??? DID it come and go or last forever??? DID it happen once or 20 times a day???

Many layers of meaning to peel through within each category... Lots to chew on. The "4D's and an F" give stable points of reference to enable communication with self and others about these amorphous issues.

This rap was the one that brought my, " I don't ask, they'll tell me if they want me to know." Mom into the world of "I'm gonna ask more questions.". (Miracle number one.)