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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
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Think of it this way, if you had a little daughter what would you say to her that would encourage her to keep trying, even if she fails at something? Would you tell her all the things you tell yourself? Would you tell her some people should not live because they just don't have it or are worthless? If she doesn't have friends will you tell her she is never going to have friends isn't worthy of friends?
Just some thoughts
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Open Eyes
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EHhhhhh..... but I don't think I'm thaaaaaaaat important. I mean, technically, I am a random person on the street. But that scenario kinda reminds me of my younger sister. She has mental and physical disabilities which limit her and she might be a perpetual child forever as she grows on to adulthood. She always feels so self-conscious and pressured from my parents to be "normal" or a "superstar" and that takes a big toll on her.
I usually tell her what I wished my parents old us when growing up. Like, "It's okay, there's always a next time." "At least we tried something new." "That wasn't so bad!" She's in high school right now and of course, right now it's a big part of her life. I try to take her out every month and get her stuff but I know it's not enough to support her like how real parents should. Not yelling at her all the time and calling her retarded.
Eh... we'll... my older sister and I are trying taking care of her. I'm managing her school psychological assessment meeting with her and my family. But.... eh. We'll see.
Thanks a bunch. You've been super supportive, helpful and given me another "pair of eyes" to see with.
