I finally got it that I don't have to finish every assignment in order to be a good employee. I don't know why I am so dense (negative thinker who just can't quite seem to get the most obvious things at times). I found myself thinking about the all-or-none thinking discribed by Cognitive behavioral therapy.
So, what is a good standard for behavior at work? I suppose it would include being on time, properly dressed, staying busy, working hard, flexibility and good customer service skills. Is that a reasonable idea? What are some of your thoughts on what makes an employee a good employee? I am hoping to figure this out some more. I think it might make work less anxiety producing and help my odd tendency to lose help.
Why am I so dense as to need to pay someone to convince me of the most obvious things in the world? How does negative thinking get that freaking annoying? Everyone else can see this obvious fact--my sister, T and my boss could see this. But, not me. How can I be less dense to reality?