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You've provided limited details. Have you asked him what's going on? Have you two discussed this? What does he do that makes you think that he doesn't care about you? Give examples. My response is based only off of what you wrote...
It sounds like
A) This is just the way he is. Nonchalant and aloof
B) He's not interested in you. or
C) The whole being friends with another guy doesn't sit too well with him. The fact that he said what he said about the whole crush thing, makes me think that it's either something that's on his mind, but more than likely, it bothers him. And because of that, he won't take you or the relationship seriously. Not too many guys would be ok with their SO being close friends with a guy. Too many reasons to list. Why does he think that you have a crush on him?
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