Right after discoveries of [Just a friend] he had I read the book Not Just Friends by Shirley Glass. I implemented 180 turn arounds refusing to do all of the things I did prior to this,going extra distances for the right meals,serving them to him while he sat and watched t.v.after his day at work, ect. I said I was insisting on both of us going to marriage therapy. His statement was "why should I go to a councelor and have them tell me to tell you I'm sorry when I already told you that? After that it was no longer discussed. He made a point to tell me forgive and forget, it was in the past, past could mean yesterday to him, he wanted to get on with his life. The other eve, after he stated he had enough problems to worry about,job,his grown kids, ect and had no time for problems here I assumed he meant he was not interested in repairing anything especially after a year and half has passed, he mentioned nothing in regards to the friend, or little else for that matter as if now punishing me for not being the doting wife as before. I have begun the process of removing my things from the house, he has not mentioned anything in regards to that either, no questions as to what I'm doing or why.

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